Mike McClanahan 1973 -2009

Mike was an avid adventurer who rock climbed and hiked. He worked in logistical support for the US Antarctic Program having travelled to Antarctica numerous times since 1994. He was a great husband and dog lover, with affection for our two Labrador Retrievers, Chester and Stanley. He passed away on Friday, August 28th at the age of 36 after battling cancer and respiratory illnesses.

Twenty-second Sunday of Ordinary Time

My Companions: We have prayers of gratitude for Audrey Fox delivered a healthy baby last week. But we also have prayers of sorrow: one of Cullen’s students, Emily Johnson, died Saturday in an auto accident. (see http://www.journalstar.com/news/article_ac232560-8f95-11de-862c-001cc4c002e0.html). A prayerful hug of those near and dear to you is in order after learning this. Nick (Katie Lay’s fiancée) had a challenging medical exam (see brother Don’s comment on last weeks post) and Josh Parise (Christine Lay Parise’s husband) fights a fever so pray for them. While we are at it let us pray in gratitude for the good health many of us enjoy.
Birthdays this week: James Carnegie 8/26,
Keeping-in-touch: I had a wonderful experience serving the faculty of Presentation of Our Lady Catholic School to a retreat experience in the mountains. Marge and I were treated to dinner twice last week with Tom Duggan and Margie and with the Carnegies! We “baked at the ballpark” with the DePriests… but the Rockies won!

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/083009.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: The interior life of Jesus is the Holy Spirit. Jesus knew that any law of the Kingdom of God must emerge from the love he found in love or else be empty http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/22OrdB083009/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: I am dumbfounded (if you can believe that) at times when I think of how the law/laws can serve us… and keep us alive. Yet, at other times, the blind following of laws delude me into complacency. I pray for a heart that is “on fire” with the Spirit that transcends all laws.

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Twenty-first Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Companions: I hope you saw the added comment from Fr. Ed about prayer needs: John Harakal and school funding needs. I also learned that Deacon John Smith’s sister, Gloria Torrence, has liver cancer and is concluding her treatments, so keep Gloria in your prayer. I also learned that Sandy Howard’s mother died this summer and will add her name to our list. And please continue to pray for all who are unemployed or under-employed. Don’t forget to praise the Lord for all the glory we find in life… and expect to experience in the full!
Birthdays this week: Margie Pintek 8/11, Katie Lay 8/19.
Keeping-in-touch: We visited good friends, Greg and Pat, while they were camping near us. Randy and I met with a publisher of “courseware.” We’re enjoying our cool summer weather as much of the rest of the country burns. Marge and I seem to be fighting a summer bug, but our energy levels have begun to return to normal. I spent much time preparing for the retreat I will lead with the teachers of Presentation of Our Lady… and I’m excited for this work!The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/082309.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: And of course, in his command from last week, to eat and drink his body and blood. The writer of John’s Gospel did not think it necessary to explain that Communion makes us “become what we have eaten,” the body of Christ. He just gave Jesus’ words by which we know this, and the disciples had to figure it out for themselves.
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/21OrdB082309/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: “Master, to whom shall we go…?” After hearing the message of “the kingdom of God” which is at times “very hard,” how can one attach one self to some guru or commit one self to power or fame or money? Listening to the message of Jesus challenges us to live in love: most beautiful, most rewarding, most life-giving…and at times, most difficult!

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Twentieth Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Companions: Melanie wrote that we pray the following: "May Mike McClanahan come to peace with his medical situation and accept what is next." Continue to pray for Julie McKay (breast cancer--note to last post). My sister, Judi, will have an operation on her hands. Remember all on our lists. Lindsay Smith's voice may be on the mend... she really wants to praise God with her voice and this gives us call to pray for all who can not use their gifts because of illness or economy or....
Birthdays this week: Neil Cyrus 8/11, Anniversary: Michele & Mike Lay 8/12
Keeping-in-touch: We enjoyed a quiet week… our excitement: Rockies won the series with the Cubs!

Readings: http://www.usccb.org/nab/081609.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “Stop thinking that your life will ever make sense if you fill it with piles of stuff and forget the one thing you need the most: closeness to God and closeness through God to everyone and everything else.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/20OrdB081609/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: I have experienced great faith with the men at Nativity who joined in a study of Christology. They shared their experience of receiving the Bread of Life and they expect to live forever. We reflected on our lack of wisdom but we enjoyed our journey and prayed to continue to walk in faith.


May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Nineteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Companions: We should praise Our God for all the gifts God has given us! What a wonderful creation God has set before us. And I have received good news from some of my companions: Audrey is doing well and we’ll continue to pray for a healthy baby; Sharon wrote that Kari “… is doing well.. getting preventative treatment, but technically right now she is 'cancer free'”; and Mike told me his brother, Jim, is recovering from his heart procedure. Let us listen as God tries to speak through our hearts (I added the reference to Centering Prayer for this week)
Birthdays this week: Maggie Lay (younger) 8/2,Gary Carnegie 8/7
Keeping-in-touch: We had a wonderful week: we returned to our swing of things, our SCC camping was “wet and wild,” and we attended the beautiful installation of Fr. Eustace at Ignatius Loyola Parish.

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/080909.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “God pursues us quietly, gently. How can we partake? Receiving Communion is a central way.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/18OrdB080209/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: I have so little about which to complain, yet I find myself murmuring over little aches and pains. And I remember my “Elijah experience” many years ago… that dangerous memory has led me to a wonderful life filled with every good thing and loving & compassionate companions. Lord, help me to rejoice in the life You have given me as well as the fullness of Life that you promise. Help me bring “good news” to others and move on to what You have in store for me.

Eighteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Companions: We had hoped to meet our friend from our trip to Ireland, Pat Dolan, but she had to leave Vail because her daughter has to have an operation: please pray for them. Many of our “companions” take this summer time to travel so we need to remember them. As always our leaders need many prayers: may they be true servants and write laws and policies that bring out the best in their people. Fr. Eustace Sequeira will be installed as pastor of St Ignatius Loyola Parish on Sunday, may he thrive as he serves his people! As always I appreciate your prayers for the people on our lists.
Birthdays this week: Cameron Ross 7/26, Ted McMurdo 7/29, Karen Norton 8/1
Keeping-in-touch: We returned from camping Monday and enjoyed the normal activities… studies, gardening and thinning the forest on Dover Court. I wrote a grant proposal and met with the Deacon Formation team. Kim Dixon and her son, Matthew, stopped for a night before heading to Vail: Matthew had time to run me around the tennis court.
The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/080209.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “We should take the falling seriously because there is really no answer to the failures of our lives, the dropping away of opportunities, the falling economy, the multiple disappointments, and the soft progress toward death.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/18OrdB080209/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: Let us praise the Father for all the “bread” he gives to us, especially “The Bread of Life,” His Son, Jesus.


May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Seventeenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Companions: I have heard of many concerns: Theresa (aunt Margie’s sister) needs prayer for her up-coming heart surgery and I have been asked to pray for my Sister’s, Judy’s, daughter, Molly who has a terrible disease. My colleague and friend, Pat O’Donnell, had an emergency brain surgery and is recovering. Niece, Katie Lay, told us of her engagement to Nick and we’re happy that the wedding will not take place ‘till next fall; pray that they celebrate love that exists when that satisfaction, security and development of another is as important as one’s own satisfaction, security and development. I’m sure there are many concerns, as well as, prayers of gratitude and praise that I can not begin to list.
Birthdays/Anniversaries this week: Larry Lay 7/14 (b-day), Megan & Cullen Stevens 7/14 (wedding anniversary),
Keeping-in-touch: Life is slowly returning to the normal rush… We took some special time to go camping in the national forest with Lori Beth and Tony (and their puppies). We’re happy to enjoy the quiet of our home and begin to catch-up on professional and personal activities.

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/readings/072609.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “…keep this Lord before our eyes. The God who gives lasting peace.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/17OrdB072609/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: I don’t know about you, but so often I, unreasonably, worry about how we will continue to make the dollars outlast the month. When we gather this weekend the Lord calls us to trust that He will provide!


May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Fifteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Companions: I ask that you pray with me for (the other) John and Margaret Lay who celebrate their love in Christ today, their wedding day. Otherwise pray for safty on the roads and all our needs and concerns as well as thanksgiving for blessings received and the Glory of God.

Birthdays this week: Dave Larson 7/9 Katie (Norton) Frodl 7/10 Ryan Beck 7/11

Keeping-in-touch: Wow another week of travel (almost updated this blog before you gather for our weekly celebration... at least those of us on this side of "the pond," Lou!). 1,600+ miles and we will still drive from Chicago to Lincoln to Broomfield after Johnny and Maggie's wedding. We had good celebrations of Independence Day in Twin Lakes with Fr. Ed & family & friends and another celebration in Broomfield.We had a good visit with the Weeds and the Pinteks and I reconnected with a high school classmate and tennis partner, Bob Blackburn... it's good to tell old stories and laugh!

The Readings:http://www.usccb.org/nab/readings/070509.shtml

Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “In your own life, why not be on the lookout for gifts and givers?”http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/15OrdB071209/reflections_foley.html

My Comments: I try to keep open and hear what the Lord is sending me to do each day. I added a picture my friend Greg sent this week... it reminds me of the glory of God and the gratitued in my heart for all God's creation

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Fourteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Companions: Randy had an MRI on his feet; let’s hope the doctors can find ways to cure/help him. Let’s pray for an excellent experience for the Cambodian girls that will study English at Regis and stay at the Lumpp’s. Pray for Marge’s friend, Nancy Fitz, operation to remove tumors. Let’s pray for all the travelers this holiday. And we’re thankful for all the moisture we have received in the Denver area.
Birthdays this week: Christine (Lay) Parise 6/30, Rev. Ed Poehlmann 7/4
Keeping-in-touch: This week we should slide back to normal, do chores around the house, catch-up on course-work and get ready for another trip. I’m enjoying the Wimbledon matches that I can see. Mike’s teaching me to play the game. I had a few hits in the Nativity Men’s Softball game but couldn’t put the ball over the plate; I served too many walks. Marge is doing better after the loss of her sister: we really appreciate your prayers.
The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/readings/070509.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “Let us take a different look at miracles… Doesn’t love have to be two-way?”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/14OrdB070509/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: I can relate to the readings soooo much! If Jesus could experience such rejection in his home town, why should I have such thin skin?? I will work to open myself to love and put our faith into practice.


May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Companions: Summer is in full swing: we’ll celebrate Independence Day at the end of next week. I pray that we can “Live Free” not only politically but physically, emotionally and spiritually; actually I wish we could “live as one” in a community of loving people who seek not only the freedom to live as children of God but also acknowledge the interdependence of all humans called to be one in Christ.
Randy wrote: “Looks like Billy Maggio's liver is rejecting. Looks like no options left.” Please keep Billy and his family and friends in your prayer.

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Birthdays this week: Julianne Stevens 6/10; Andrew Kornacki 6/15; Jim Frodl 6/19; Stephen Lay 6/19 (I had to do a little catch-up!)
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Keeping-in-touch: Last week is a bit of a blur for us with Mary Weed’s funeral and our travel back home. This week has almost come to its conclusion before I’ve written on this blog for our preparation of Sunday’s scripture and to “keep-in-touch.” And in a little over a week, we will return again to the Great Lakes States to celebrate John & Maggie’s Wedding.

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The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/readings/062809.shtml
Comments on the Readings:

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Fr. Foley: “But Jesus was certain, with God’s own assurance, that love is stronger than death.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/13OrdB062809/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: I could not find more appropriate readings for our present situation than those for this Thirteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time: we need to know that God did not create death but has power over it! Can we have the faith of the woman with the hemorrhage (long form of the gospel) and know that our “touching Our Lord” will heal us? Or that of Jairus, the synagogue official, who has the courage to seek out Jesus!
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May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Mary Weed 12/8/52 to 6/12/09

Mary Weed went before us in faith Friday, June 12th.

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She fought cancer for many years and taught us all about fighting with grace and dignity and love.

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We will all miss all the love she brought to this world especially: Bob, her husband of 27 years; her son Tim (24) daughters Colleen (22) and MaryKate (18); and her sister, Margaret, and brother, Patrick.

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As a brother-in-law, I knew Mary as a person who stayed "out of the lime light" but brought love and joy and service to others "behind the scenes." She looked for the positive in everyone... even me! I know she prayed for me especially when she read this blog. Her life was a service of care for her family of origin, her husband and children and all who needed a meal or an open ear.

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I remember how she kept Margaret informed on their aging parents (Aquinas and Alice) as Mary cared for them so well. Mary was Margaret's information source for the goings-on of the family. They loved each other deeply. Although we live twelve hundred miles apart, they shared their lives regularly with laughter and tears.

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Mary didn't really take to snow skiing (this was BB: before Bob) but we (Mary, Margaret and I) had a memorable experience. After our trials at Winterpark CO when we spent much of the evening stopped on Berthoud Pass behind a line of cars stopped because of an avalanche we invited two fellows from Georgia to joined us in our Chevy and keep from freezing to death in their air heated Volkswegan. I can still hear the laughter.

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Mary and Bob really lived their sacrament of matrimony: they showed us how their love for one another in good times and in times of suffering witness to Christ's presence in our world. Bob's care for his lovely Bride has impacted my soul as an example of true love.

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And you only have to visit with Tim and Colleen and MaryKate for a short while to see the effect Mary's love has had on her offspring. Those young people have suffered, and also enjoyed good times, with their mother. They have learned about true love and service from their parents.

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It took me a long time to "publish" this memorial because we're exhausted from travel and funerals... and there's a big hole in the hearts of the Weed and Norton clans. I'm certain Mary will have had patience with me!

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We love you, Mary, and await our celebration of the resurrection together in God's good time.

Twelfth Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Companions: By now, most of our friends and relatives have learned of Mary Weed's passing on Friday: http://obits.mlive.com/obituaries/grandrapids/obituary.aspx?page=lifestory&pid=128404648 She really did teach us that Christ does not give us short-cut through life; He promises that we will pass through suffering, as He did. The gift of her faith through her suffering will always be an example for me.

We did have some good news, that Rachel and Peter closed on a house.

Keeping-in-touch: We have enjoyed our vacation in Spain with Connie and Alan. We experienced a different culture, saw many sights and made some new friends. We will have many stories and pictures to share. I think our internal clocks will adjust... sooner or later!

The Readings: http://www.usccb.org/nab/readings/062109.shtml

Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “The Gospel shows Jesus using the same confusing manner of love on the disciples in the boat.” http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/12OrdB062109/reflections_foley.html

My Comments: Who is this Jesus who calms the storm and asks us to have faith! In times of hardship and loss we really are challenged to have faith: an openness to allow God's love to work through us.

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Pentecost Sunday

My Companions: Thank you for your prayers for my friend Gary and for Kim, Amanda and Matthew. The “celebration of another’s life” calls us to reflect on all the gifts given to us from the Author of Life: may we use those gifts well and expect a purification of all of these in the Kingdom of God. Continue in your prayer for all our sick companions and for all who do not find opportunities to employ their talents and gifts in our trying economy.
Birthdays this week: Michael Ross B-day.
Keeping-in-touch: Our journey to Raleigh brings wonder to our eyes and ears as we see and hear how our friend touched so many lives. We have received a very gracious welcome from the family and friends of the Dixons. The love and compassion poured-out brings to light the work of the Spirit. This spring season fills our world with new life… and there’s an excitement in Denver over basketball!

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/readings/053109.shtml

Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “…believers today are definitely filled with the Holy Spirit. It is the same Spirit that descended upon the apostles and their associates. But we receive the gift in a much less dramatic manner.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/PentecostB053109/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: The Holy Spirit lives in me and in you. When we are moved with charity, understanding and hope we embody that movement of the Spirit of God. In a special way let us open ourselves to the workings of the Spirit in ourselves and in those we meet.

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Gary Dixon 2/28/47 - 5/20/09

I received one of "those" calls while in a meeting at Regis yesterday. "... Gary died last night." Kim told me. (see obituary at http://hosting.9871.tributes.com/show/Gary-Dixon-85954970 )

My friend loved life! He loved his beautiful Bride, Kim, and he loved his children, Amanda and Matthew. His family and all his friends will always re-member his zest for life. He always filled the room with energy, the energy he embodied from the love he found in nature, in people, in his inner self and in his relationship with the Lord.

Gary didn't have to tell you about "abundant life." He lived it: in the mountains, on the golf course, on the tennis court, in his garden, in the classroom or where ever life can be found.

He honored me by asking me to stand as best man at his wedding and I am so proud of the sacramental sign of Christ the marriage of Kim and Gary has been. Through them we have known the love of God and have loved God in return. He honored me by calling me "friend."

So I have taken some time to read the story of Lazarus: how Jesus loved him and how Jesus asks (us) if we believe: http://www.usccb.org/nab/bible_hold/john/john11.htm and I invite you to join me as I think of the way Gary lived life and trusts in The Good Shepherd http://www.usccb.org/nab/bible/john/john10.htm#v10

Let us celebrate his life... and the Life we are called to share now and forever more.

Mr Gary Donald Dixon
BORN: February 28, 1947
DIED: May 20, 2009

Visitation:
Tuesday May 26 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM
Renaissance Funeral Home
7615 Six Forks Road
Raleigh, NC
Funeral Service:
Wednesday May 27 4:00 PM to 5:00 PM
St. Raphael the Archangel Catholic Church
5801 Falls of Neuse Road
Raleigh, NC
Interment:
Wednesday May 27 5:00 PM to 5:15 PM
St. Raphael the Archangel Catholic Church Columbarium
5801 Falls of Neuse Road
Raleigh, NC

Ascension of the Lord

My Companions: I am most appreciative in my prayer these days for the wonderful spring weather; we can enjoy the out-of-doors and see new life all around us. Let’s pray for all the graduates and celebrate their success. Remember all those looking for work. I have added my friend Timothy Strick, who is checking on some memory problems and Fr Ed Hoffmann who will leave parish life for the Monastery, but take time to read through our list..
Birthdays this week: open calendar this week.
Keeping-in-touch: I’m very appreciative of the help I received from my friend, Gary, as we put up a new fence and gate at the front of the house. We attended some graduation parties and visited with friends we had not seen for a while. I played some tennis and hit the ball fairly well at Nativity men’s softball. Well the big news last week was our pastor, Fr Ed Hoffmann, told the people of Nativity that he will return to the monastery at Snowmass in July; we will have a new pastor and we hope Fr Ed finds peace in his new environment.

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/052409b.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “The immense act of modest love that was the resurrection is poured into us and is called the Holy Spirit.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/7EasterB052409/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: In a special way, may we tune into the Holy Spirit as we celebrate the Ascension of the Lord!


May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Sixth Sunday of Easter

My Companions: Lori Beth and Tony made contact with a new adoption agency so that’s some good news. I hope you saw Anita Dunn’s request for prayers for Jim Noonan. Otherwise our list is long. We also have many blessings for which our hearts should swell in gratitude.
Birthdays this week: Connie Kobza birthday and Katie & Jim Frodl’s wedding anniversary; blessings to them.
Keeping-in-touch: Since I updated so late last week, I do not have much new to share… our lives are full!

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/051709.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “Therefore, Jesus is not gone, gone, gone, he is here, in the flesh, in all who will receive him.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/6EasterB051709/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: Why is it so hard to quiet ourselves and realize the love of God… our friend!


May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Fifth Sunday of Easter

My Companions: For all those fighting sickness, I have especially in mind Mary Weed, Gary Dixon and Patrick O’Donnell, may our prayers help them in their suffering and help & guide all who love them and serve them in their time of need. Let’s also remember to pray for other enslaving aspects we experience: employment issues (because of their employment or lack of employment), anxiety (and other psychological disorders), as well as spiritual emptiness. But let’s not forget to have gratitude in our hearts for the new life around us: Craig McBride’s going to be a grandpa again.
Birthdays this week: Anna Margaret DeBaar, Willy Smith, Molly Norton, Sharon McKay and Patrick Norton… blessings to all.

Keeping-in-touch: I’m “a slacker again” this week: it’s Thursday and only now do I update this blog. Maybe I have slowed-down because I do not act my age: I pulled a muscle in my leg playing softball Sunday evening. Our first “Who do you say I am” reflections with men at Nativity brought some encouraging comments. I have had some encouraging meetings in both Colorado Springs and Denver for the use of our services. My learning curve seems more like a ladder about ready to fall back on itself, but I’ve always loved the challenge. We enjoying the spring weather and look forward to our trip to Spain (less than 3 weeks away and Marge isn’t finished packing). The honey-do list grows by the minute… (think I'll go play golf with my friend, Jim).

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/051009.shtml

Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “Ouch. If we bring forth no fruit, we 'will be thrown out like a branch and wither.' If we bear some, we have to be pruned anyway. We lose either way!” http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/5EasterB051009/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: Fr. Foley’s reflections this week rank as some of the best. More than ever before, I experience this pruning in both my work and in my prayer. The pains and the rejections as well as the surge of life and encouragement tell me that I’m alive... and connected to both an incomplete world and a loving Lord.

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Fourth Sunday of Easter

My Companions: I heard good news this week: one of my priest friends found some funds to help save his inner city parish school. I heard that Sam is recovering but has lost a lot of his zip; and Mary Weed has had a better week with her medical treatments. Fr. Ed asks us to pray for his niece, Audrey: she’s having a difficult time keeping her pregnancy (see comment). Our list on the left side is long but I receive comments of gratitude for all your prayers and support. I added Audrey Fox and Jim DePriest (heart surgery for irregular beat) this week.
Birthdays this week: ???
Keeping-in-touch: I enjoyed three days of tennis last week and played softball in the rain Sunday night with Nativity Men. We had a good pot-luck gathering with faculty and spouses. And we celebrated Tom Duggan’s retirement… what does a philosopher do in retirement? I have offered to facilitate a summer session on Christology and am building a Moodle supliment for those who wish to use it… I’m excited about this.

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/050309.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “Two ways of life: on one side, Grab And Keep. On the other, Receive and Let Go. The hired hand, the good shepherd.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/4EasterB050309/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: The Good Shepherd offers a love so wonderful we must take some time to savor this awesome gift. Sometimes I hectically spend my time working for wages (or in hopes of some) that I fail to reflect on my “labors of love.”


May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Third Sunday of Easter

My Companions: We have all our regular people that need our prayers.
I put a picture of the Dixons on this issue (Kim, Amanda, Matthew and Gary). Gary sees the hospice people this week and he has a lot of pain. He honored me years ago when he joined our friend, Kim, in Holy Matrimony and asked me to be his best man. We prayed and laid hands on him when they visited last summer. I love my friend and want you all to know what a wonderful husband, father, educator and friend he is. It looks like we will not have opportunities to play tennis, drink micro-brews, argue educational philosophy or share our faith in person. But he’s in my heart now and will continue always.
Another friend, Tom Martin, who left to work for the Lord way too early in his days, wrote that a friend can be closer to you from a distant land or across dimensions of life than others next to you in a crowded room of people. And he said, “John, I’ll always be with you.” And he has been.
Let us always know we live as a community of saints and our tears will turn into dancing.
Birthdays this week: Kevin Norton
Keeping-in-touch: We had a wonderful, long weekend at Grand Lake thanks to our good friends who let us use their cabin. And I made contact with some high school classmates… Facebook is a kick! It’s “springtime in the Rockies” 1 – 4’ of snow over the weekend.

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/041909.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: By this time the apostles had come to their senses… Peter knew the “rest of the story.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/3EasterB042609/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: Sometimes, when I look back, I realize angels have released me from oppression. And I wonder how often I have not recognized Jesus working in my life.


May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Divine Mercy Sunday

My Companions: The good news is Madelaine Lumpp’s surgery recovery. Continue to pray for those who are sick and those seeking opportunities to use their talents in this challenging economy. As always, leave comments if you wish.
Birthdays this week: nothing on my calendar again.
Keeping-in-touch: We had a wonderful celebration of the Triduum and participated in the beautiful liturgies Thurs. thru Sun. Matt, Lori Beth & Tony joined us for Easter Dinner; some storytelling and laughter. I’m running behind… but finally sent in the taxes.
The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/041909.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “Jesus was the river of love that God had poured into the world. He was now flowing back into the ocean of the Trinity and taking us along, whichever of us chooses to believe.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/2EasterB041909/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: In many ways, the Resurrection is so difficult to imagine that I can understand the difficulties of “doubting Thomas.” I wonder what Thomas, and all the other disciples of Jesus, really expected. How might our expectations fail at the glory of living in the Community of Love that is the Trinity? Also, I feel the awful awkwardness of Thomas when I experience the Love of the Lord, after my moments of desolation. How wonderful is the Lord’s mercy!

What is your experience of receiving forgiveness?
How do you understand this mercy we have been offered?
Does this understanding make a difference for you?
How will this experience of forgiveness and mercy change your behavior?


May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Easter Sunday The Resurrection of the Lord

My Companions: Please continue to remember Mary Weed, Gary Dixon and Mike McCanahan  and their families as they continue their fights with cancer; the news this week has been very dis-heartening (one of my scripture reflections last week made me reflect on “our job” and our short time in this world Philippians 1:20-26 where Paul reflects on his life and his desire ( http://www.usccb.org/nab/bible/philippians/philippians1.htm#v20 ).  I did receive a good news email from Rick Dunn that his treatments went well and he looks forward to working in his New York garden.  Many people hurt from this economy, may all our struggles bring forth renewals.  And Madelaine Lumpp’s surgery will take place on Wednesday. Birthdays this week: I have no events on my calendar this week to share.

Keeping-in-touch: Our trip made this a short week and I enjoyed my work and our last Ignatian Faculty Scholars Day for the school year.  I have much writing to do and hope to produce a “Spirituality and Cyberspace” manuscript in short order but we’ll see.  Our first Old Testament “virtual learning experience” is well underway.  I have much gratitude for Connie Kobza, the facilitator, and all the participants!  We will do good work.

The Readings: http://www.usccb.org/nab/041209.shtml

Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “Jesus became the night. Jesus is the light..” http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/Triduum_Easter2009/reflections_foley.html

My Comments: Like Paul, I want to be with Christ and I also want to toil with my companions.  I also do not know the better choice.  I have experienced love in community and the last gospel reading for Easter Sunday is my favorite with the account of the disciples on the road to Emmaus.  Let us remember those times when our hearts burned within us as we celebrate Easter this year.

What is your experience of Easter?

How do you understand this awesome feast?

Does this event make a difference for you?

How does this event and our celebration change your behavior?

 

I pray you have a blessed Easter

 

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

 

John

Palm Sunday of the Lord's Passion

My Companions: I have received notes from a few of our friends and we have many requests for prayer: Kim Dixon wrote that Gary’s cancer has returned and they are not doing well, Melanie McCanahan wrote that Mike’s battle with cancer keeps them at the hospital and Marge tells that her sister Mary Weed has a very tough time with her new treatments.  I wish I had more joyful happenings to raise in prayer but we have real time sufferings to remember as we read the passion this weekend.

Birthdays this week: Mark Ross, Michael Olson and Adam Olson.

Keeping-in-touch: Although the roads presented a challenge because of our “springtime” weather, we had a wonderful visit with our family in Lincoln.  The little ones are so filled with life.  Julianne asked, “Papa why don’t you move back to Nebraska?”  I gently replied that we never did live in Nebraska and a move to "the good life State" was never going to happen!

The Readings:

http://www.usccb.org/nab/040509.shtml

Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “But the real basis of kingship and queenship is serving the people, no matter what.”

http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/PassionB040509/reflections_foley.html

My Comments: As we reflect on the passion of Christ this weekend we should probably re-member that this suffering of Jesus continues today in each of the sick, the oppressed, the enslaved and the impoverished members of His Body.  This will make our hearts fill-up with compassion for our Lord and all our sisters and brothers.  Our hope in the Resurrection will reduce the pain but will not take it away.

 May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Fifth Sunday of Lent

My Companions: Well Companions, I missed last week’s update (but no one called me on my “slacker-status” so I guess my procrastination received no comment). Here we will return to challenge and comments. My friend Greg asked that we pray for “Brian” who denies the existence of God so we’ll add that to our list. Also Randy told me that his daughter, Madelaine, will have to have an operation for “a hole in her heart.” This is the same operation that Anna Margaret had last fall if you remember (http://companions-in-prayer.blogspot.com/2008/08/nineteenth-sunday-in-ordinary-time.html) but Madelaine is about 20 years older. So, as we continue to pray for all on our lists, we will add these.
Birthdays last week: We had many birthdays last week, the St. Patrick’s Day Birthdays: Charlie Stevens (grandson), Rick Dunn, Lindsay Smith and Trish Buckley and the others: Bob Weed and Christine DeBaar.
Birthdays this week: I see only Rachel (Kobza) Varra and me.

Keeping-in-touch: We enjoyed some Spring weather and did some of the garden prep work. And we're planning to visit our little ones in Lincoln. Marge didn't have "the intestional fortitude" to celebrate the Irish High Holiday but she's better this week. I miss doing this blog and she sent birthday cards out late! We'll work to stay on track this week.

The Readings:
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/5LentB032909/reflections_foley.html
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: ” There is only one way for the seeds of our souls to escape death. They must rupture the safety shield, and begin the journey of courage. They must be taught love within the darkness.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/3LentB031509/reflections_foley.html
And ” The famous words that follow are almost unique in the Gospels. ‘And Jesus wept.’"
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/5LentRCIA032909/reflections_foley.html
My Comments: no matter if your community proclaims the Raising of Lazarus scripture or the Preparation for the Passover Feast passage we come upon our final weeks of Lent and we remember how Jesus had to suffer and die before the Resurrection! I hope we can pick-up our crosses, help one another carry theirs and celebrate together the promise of New Life.


May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Third Sunday of Lent

My Companions: After receiving my forward (a blond joke) my friend, Sharon (a blond, “cowboy” from WY and one of the causalities of our economic mess) replied that she went to Seattle to care for a friend, Keri Kirton, who has returned from the hospital after her first chemo treatment in her fight against melanoma cancer. We have so much for which to pray! I heard Sam Eccher has regained some strength. Otherwise, continue to review and remember those on our lists. Birthdays this week: John Lay (my brother Larry’s son who will marry Maggie in July!)

Keeping-in-touch: Oh what a full week! I met with four people who showed interest in facilitating a course with our Emmaus Project; I visited with the Chancellor of the Archdiocese to “show and tell;” I worked with Deacon John Smith to begin helping him use the distance learning tools; I gave my presentation at the RMR AAR meeting; and I met in a net-meeting with Sr Janet, in London! The other good news: my number did not come-up so I do not have to serve on jury duty this week. We had some wonderful Spring-like weather but it’s snowing as I write this blog this morning.

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/031509a.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “We are made to be filled with God’s presence, to be beloved by God and to love God in return.”
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/3LentB031509/reflections_foley.html
My reflections: maybe if we recognized the whole of creation and all of God’s people as “God’s house” we would, more often, experience a “righteous indignation” at the marketplace. As we have been watching the movie, The Passion of the Christ, my friend, Mark, becomes very upset at the way people “just stood around and let that happen.” This is quite a challenge for us who try to shelter ourselves from the pain and suffering in our midst”

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Second Sunday of Lent

My Companions: I visited my friend and colleague, Sam Eccher, in the hospital this after noon and he asks for your prayers as he recovers from his second surgery. He is not physically strong but has an encouraging spirit! And Elizabeth told us this morning that her husband, Clarence Boitnott, struggles again. Judi Cole is in the hospital. Gary Dixon needs a physical and psychic jolt; hopefully the time change will give us all a boost (don’t forget to adjust your time pieces: “spring ahead”). Mary Weed and Pat O’Donnell share encouraging words we Marge and I talk to them on the phone (respectively). Don’t forget all those who these hard economic times feel the hit.
My birthday, anniversary, and other celebration events calendar has no marks this week.

Keeping-in-touch: Even though Lent began last week, my week was filled with lunch events for business and friends. We have begun to enroll people in our inaugural Old Testament Course (Launch Date = March 29th: I would love to have you join one of our first sessions: http://www.emmausinstitute.org/main/page_march_09_registration.html) and I’m meeting with new facilitators and potential directors. Today I received my first scholarship check from a donor friend. We celebrated Matt, Lori Beth and Tony’s birthdays with a brunch of new foods. The early spring weather gave me opportunities to play tennis and Marge studies Spanish as she works-out on her “gazelle.” I will give my AAR presentation on Saturday: “Pedagogy, Technology and the Generations.” Tough times sometimes help us really reflect on what matters most!
The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/030809.shtml
Comments on the Readings: Fr. Foley: “In the Transfiguration Jesus the comfort showed himself as God the infinite fire.” http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/2LentB030809/reflections_foley.html
My reflections: The reading from the Old Testament this week, Abraham called to sacrifice his son, Isaac, has always given me cause to struggle with God! How could a loving God request such an inhumane act? I humbly cower, like Job, when I think of questioning my Lord! And, existentially, I live in the “Fear and Trembling” of Kierkegaard (and I have lost sleep over this). I have come to re-focus, with the help of Fr. John Kavanaugh and I hope you will see the promise vs. the potential sacrifice. http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/2LentB030809/theword_encountered.html

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

First Sunday of Lent

My Companions: It’s never easy to say “Au revoir” to our parents, even when we have a resurrection faith. Peggy’s father died last Friday, so our prayers are with her: http://www.thestarpress.com/article/20090221/OBITUARIES/902210344/1023 Remember all the people looking for work and homes. Let us continue to pray for the renewed health of the people on our list; I have added Greg Wells, one of my Ignatian Faculty Scholar Colleagues.
Birthdays this week: Tony Gulmantovicz (son-in-law), Michele Lay, Mitch Ross

Keeping-in-touch: As always teaching and grading papers took up most of my time last week. Bill and Lindsay invited us to dinner one evening and our SCC (small church community group) reflected on some scenes from the movie “Passion of the Christ” as lent approaches but other than that we’re just “living the dream.” Oh yes, we did take “a leap of faith” that I will become “more productive” and we made our flight reservations for Spain in June.

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/030109.shtml

Comments on the Readings:
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/1LentB030109/reflections_foley.html
Fr. Foley: “What if we described Lent as a “Retreat”?
My thoughts: I can not look at a rainbow as just another beautiful phenomenon any more. The rainbow tells me, “The time of fulfillment is near, the kingdom of God is at hand!” This symbol of the covenant calls to mind an invitation of friendship from the Greatest Lover not an agreement of submission but a call to abundant life. I pray my lenten practices will bring me closer to that Awesome Love.

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Seventh Sunday of Ordinary Time

My Companions: We have some good news: Katie Frodl, Marge’s niece, is going to have a baby. Rachel and Peter Varra have a contract on a new home. Dave Larson gets to retire! Another good friend may have more business then he can handle with his new business (a good problem to have these days). We still have many concerns: Peggy Silvers traveled to be with her father, Merl Green, who had a stroke. My sister, Judi, returned to the hospital and needs anti-bacteria treatments. Dave Larson’s mother will have knee surgery. Remember those on our prayer lists.
Birthdays this week: Matthew (our son)

Keeping-in-touch: I enjoyed my classes, showed others how Moodle works, studied with my Ignatian Faculty Scholar Companions and celebrated St. Valentine’s Day with a Dinner & competitive card playing at “the love birds” Alan and Connie.

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/readings/022209.shtml

Comments on the Readings:
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/7OrdB022209/reflections_foley.html
Fr. Foley: “He is showing the people what was most important in this life, God’s forgiving love.”
My thoughts: I’m thankful for the time you, my companions, have allowed the Spirit in you to tell me, “John, your sins are forgiven.”

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Sixth Sunday of Ordinary Time

My Companions:

I did not learn much this last week that I have not already noted. Many are looking for work. Maybe we should pray for those who acted in ignorance and greed and help create this economic mess. Praying for the sociopath probably reminds us of our own evil potential and makes this a difficult behavior. Remember those on our prayer lists.
Birthdays this week: Lori Beth (my daughter)

Keeping-in-touch:
The Las Vegas trip brought new directions and services to provide. The encouragement of the people with whom I met brought delight for the service we will soon provide. My visit to downtown Las Vegas and “The Strip” revealed opulence that I have never imagined. My “tour guide,” Gary, and I brought home many stories. My home, my Bride, my family and friends hold more richness than any entertainment world… so good to return.

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/readings/021509.shtml

Comments on the Readings:
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/6OrdB021509/reflections_foley.html
Fr. Foley: “Our spiritual life consists of being made clean, which is the same thing as allowing God into our souls, to touch them.”
My thoughts: Jesus heals the leper. In my business, at times, students can be obsessed with, “what really happened?” and miss the power of the proclamation of God’s healing power and God’s call to allow that power to work in us. I hope as we prepare for our gathering this week, we can open our hearts and minds to that power where we, individually and communally, need healing.

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Fifth Sunday of Ordinary Time

My Companions:
Gone before us: A good friend of Dad: Aggie Haines http://www.legacy.com/STNG-NapervilleSun/Obituaries.asp?Page=LifeStory&PersonId=123551273
Notes on our Companions’ healing needs:
Melanie writes that her husband, Mike, must now go through chemotherapy (see comment); I heard that Pat O’Donnell is very tired on account of his chemo treatments and Sam Eccher had colon surgery on Monday. A Regis colleague: David Hirsch’s wife (in her 30s) has been diagnosed with breast cancer. And progress: my sister, Judi Cole, came home from the hospital and Marge tells me that her sister, Mary Weed, sounds stronger.
Birthdays this week: Mike DePriest and Ed Luckett.

Keeping-in-touch:
I had an opportunity to present at the Cherry Creek Diversity Conference and I’m presently in Las Vegas building business and playing a little.

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/readings/020809.shtml

Comments on the Readings:
http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/5OrdB020809/reflections_foley.html
Fr. Foley: “What I did not understand was the amount of pride polish mothers take in their traditional foods and the amount of it that they serve.”
My thoughts: we really are called to trust… when we experience times of sickness (Peter’s mother-in-law), despondency (Job), or offering of our lives (Jesus). As you see from this blog we know many people in our concentric circles of friends that can use our prayers and support to encourage their trust.

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.

John

Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time

My Companions:
This was a busy week and we have much to celebrate and new prayer needs: Bill and Lindsay Smith became grandparents again. Bella Claire Foresman joined the family of Haley, Eddie and little Gracie weighing-in at 6 lbs 4 oz and 18 ¼ inches; everyone’s doing well. Renee and Nic Lumpp participated in liberation of slave girls in Cambodia and will return to Colorado this week (see: http://www.somaly.org/ ). And we have more needs for healing: Randy Lumpp’s feet, Tom Duggan’s head (the outside: needs a skin graft but doctors think they cut out the skin cancer), Dan Gleason’s fractured wrist (car accident), Allan Service’s recovery from a stroke and Lindsay Smith’s larynx troubles her and is keeping her from singing. Please pray for the gift of an adopted child for Tony and Lori Beth (don’t know why I haven’t had this on this blog). Remember all those who experience anxiousness in these fragile economic times when we try to be good stewards of the gifts given to us, especially my Pa and my friend Bill. Pray for our new leaders and know the Lord can work through all of us. Birthdays this week: My Pa, Edmund, and my sister, Mary Ellen Olson.

Keeping-in-touch:
It’s no wonder we will enter February 2009 when we assemble to celebrate these readings: the week sped bye! We enjoyed excellent tennis weather (70s) but winter has returned to the Front Range. The celebrations of Fr. Dwyer’s life called us to an increase in faith: Fr. Ed Poehlmann proclaimed good news and fond memories at a time of loss. I sent out my first invitations for support of The Emmaus Institute and have received two promises to purchase subscriptions. A couple of my Old Testament Course Evaluators, Jessica and Lauren, have given me some good insight. Marge and I took a leap of faith (that I will find opportunities to serve and apply my skill): we made our flight reservations with Connie and Alan for our planned trip to Spain in June!

The Readings:
http://www.usccb.org/nab/readings/020109.shtml

Comments on the Readings:
Fr. Foley: “…God will remain with you no matter what, and that his gentle heart will banish all fear.” http://www.liturgy.slu.edu/4OrdB020109/reflections_foley.html
My Reflections: We really live in a time of fear and this economy gives us much reason to tremble (I added names of those looking for work in our intentions). I hope we can come together in Christ, not allow our hearts to be hardened and serve one another in these stressful times. Let’s work to light candles rather than curse the darkness!

May the peace of Christ be with each of you.




John